Dr. Richa Chandra: And if we just kind of list some of the things from the documentary
that were considered these microaggressions, the stuff that's under the iceberg
or a submersion water, so things that they brought up, mistaken for a
custodian, ignored in meetings, Inappropriate emails, treated like a
technician, not getting credit. I'm looking at you, Amber, questioning
competence and family leave stigma. Oh gosh. And that just, when I was watching
that, I was telling Amber yesterday, I got emotional towards the end of the
movie because I think that, I mean, I'm guilty of like maybe suppressing,
minimizing individual events. And it's what Jane said, in the documentary, like
time would pass. It's not like continuously these things happen, right? Like,
so you might have days between or years or months between these things, but
they chip away at you. They take up space, time, away from you being able to be
productive in your career and really just kind of the privilege that Our male
counterparts have where they can just, not even think about those things or
deal with those things.
I have been accosted when I started off in my
career, partially because I look young, and petite, , like what are you doing
in here in the faculty lounge? Like, you know, making copies of my exam, right?
I'm like, I'm faculty, you know, just because picture a scientist, I may not
look like it at that stage.
But yeah.
Amber, you were saying that you weren't sure if you
were feeling what? Optimistic or just kind of, you know, downtrodden about
Dr. Amber Miller: Yeah, I mean, and to
circle back, like, I think it was Dr Burks who was talking about her email,
basically the time it takes her to respond to emails to make sure she has
appropriately crafted the email and so that it's not too assertive, right? Or
she'll come off as angry and all of these things.
And I thought,
I do I to this day, still take so much time when I craft my emails and before I
think I took a lot of time and now I'm taking a lot of time to almost undo some
of the stuff that I have ingrained to minimize my ask, right? Like I just wanted
to know, I just wanted to follow up.
Like, no, I
don't need to put the just in there anymore. I wanted to follow up with you to
check in on X and Y, so what is professional? What's going to come across as
unprofessional? What's going to come across? Like, I don't know what I'm
talking about. What's going to come across as I'm not being collaborative or
when should I use we, and when should I put i, and when should I, you do all
these things and, you know, it takes, it takes me a long time for some of the
emails that I have to write when it's going to different sorts of people or my
boss's boss's boss. Right. And, and it's just, when you think about adding up.
Every time I sit down to write one of those emails and even to a colleague and
even to, you know, whoever it's incredible, right?
And in terms
of, it doesn't seem like a big deal, but I could be doing so much more than
just that email and the amount of time it takes me to craft a single email.