Eleonore:
That was a beautiful transition to mothers in science. That is a perfect leeway
to talk a little bit more about mothers in science. How is it possible to work
with them or to meet other people?
Dr. Belina di Bartolo:
So, I wish we could meet up, but we are based everywhere. So, our
founder is in France, in Paris, and there are people from, all over the world.
We are global. I'm the only one from Australia. there's someone from New
Zealand. There's people in the US, in Canada, in Europe, Africa, everywhere.
It's amazing and it's such a wonderful community. We're there to support mothers in science
and empower women in STEM and provide, forums for people for. Dr. Eleonore Soei
Winkels, Podbean, ActiveCampaign, Descript, Squadcast, TypeForm, You can get
from this community, come along to any of the scimon chats that we put on.
The biggest one is share your journey. So,
yeah, I encourage you if you're a mum in science to join as a member, sign up
just to the newsletter, so that you're exposed to what, mothers in science have
to offer.
Eleonore:
That's great that you also have role models from the BIPOC community and all of them have in common that they
are mothers in science. As I said that it's sometimes easier when you come
from a country where you have a role model system in the sense that you have a
long maternity leave and then you can come back to work being a little bit less
exhausted than after eight weeks after giving birth, which is the case in some
countries. The first time I was working in the US I was like, wow, so many
women work and they have kids. And I was like, wow, they're strong. And then I
found out that they have to, and I was like, oh, okay. So I'm very, I'm very
privileged to live in Germany. where you have a longer maternity leave than
that. I did not choose one because I thought that I can do it all, but that's a
different story. That's stupid on my side. But you know, things change and you
have to sort of like understand that there is a cost to everything. And
learning from other women, may help you to not do the mistakes for yourself.
And that's why
I'm also encouraging all the women who are not yet mothers to network with
those who are so that you know what's coming ahead so that you can make an
informed decision because it really is something Usually people don't talk
about that. Men do not talk about that because they are not even aware that
there are problems.
And women,
sometimes, not you and I, but sometimes we are ashamed that we chose wrong. And
think that we have to just roll with that. But the thing is that there are
systemic hurdles we can only overcome if we Advocate for ourselves, and that
means that you know what is possible and at what cost. And that's why Mothers
in Science is a great opportunity to learn how it can be and will be. And so
that you will find the right role models, because I really do think being
underrepresented, underprivileged, and underserved means that you have to find
the different ways. Mothers in science is a great way to learn.