Eleonore:
So coming back to your book, what are your favorite chapters and insights that
you want to share here with my audience, the postdoc transformers who are
scientists leaping into business, but also with my students in real life, the
bachelor and master students of industrial and occupational psychology.
What are the
things that you want to share with them as they become fathers and mothers in
the near future?
Absolutely.
And there's one very important factor that you forgot to mention, dear Ellie.
That you are also part of the book. You contributed.
Yeah, I know.
But to be honest, we both know how that came. Right. So you were thinking of
me. And I'm grateful that you did so.
Dr. Irène Kilubi: Thank you so much. So, coming back to your question, there's, for
example, one chapter that I really like it's called, I need to translate it
from German into English.
I hope that
it's, close to it. It means like, don't fear anything. Why we should, , give
younger people more responsibility, right? Something around this lines. So I
talk about reverse leadership. Because nowadays, this is also something that
one quarter of all companies are facing right now, that we have younger people
who are managing older employees, right? So, I'm talking about my experience is
when I was young and people, thought that I was too young to take on any
decisions or to take on responsibility. However, I didn't have that much of
this problem because they believed that I was competent enough, but still, they
were so stubborn. Stick and tie to my age.
They said, Oh,
you're too young. Just wait a couple more years. You're performing. You're
great. And so on and so forth. So why, if I have all the required skills and
I'm motivated, you are only focusing on my age. What is the difference if I'm
20 or 30, if I have the skills to do something bigger or to advance in my
career.
So this
chapter is totally devoted to this topic, and also many experts come to word
and I have mentioned several statistics as well. My personal experiences, some
voices from the community, what they think about reverse leadership. And then
also at the end of each chapter, you have a little exercise and time to reflect
on the chapter, what you have learned from it.
I'm also
presenting some methods, strategies, and tied to best practices from people,
from organizations like yourself or from companies, corporates and startups. So
I'm so excited about this book and I really want people to take the most out of
it, right? There are some chapters that are really close to my heart, one is
called staying hungry and why the color of your life journey should be
colorful. I don't know how it's called in the English speaking countries, but
in Germany we say, Oh, you should have a red line in your CV. And I think
that's so awkward because red is a color signal, it's always like danger, you
know, and I thought like, why shouldn't it be like green or yellow? And I said,
at the end of the day, it should just be colorful. The journey of your life
should be colorful. It's not in a way like in the past, like for our parents,
you know, Ellie, they did their apprenticeship or their studies whatsoever,
started their professional career and remained at one company until they
retired. You know, so make your life colorful because you are facing many
different life stages and you have a great personality with many different
facets and many different skills. So live it out, right? Make your life journey
and your CV colorful. And this applies to every age, you know, like if you're
very young, you still don't know what to do. Try out things. You know, you
don't need to be stuck in your comfort zone and the other, the same thing
applies to people who are older as well. Even though you're 50, if you think
that there's a career move, the right thing for you to do, so go for it.
Eleonore: Absolutely. And you know, for me, becoming a mom was almost one of the most
profound decisions, if you can call that a decision, because it really is a
gift, you know? It made me so much stronger in what I advocate for myself and
my kids. So, talking about your picture of a thread that is really colorful, I
could spin that a little bit further. You know, you could also think of it as
having a lot of threads that you can braid or dovetail and they become
stronger. So, instead of having one thread of one color, you can have a
stronger and more colorful rope, which is even more elastic and resilient for
your future. So now, let's come back to your book again.